life from a black window...

At times it amazes me ,when i luk around 2 witness few girls of my age group or even younger than me in a completely different view than what i or my other fellow girls c. I wonder , how would the world seem from a lil black window put on my face ....everythn so narrowed at it's view,so weird....four - five years age girls i see all covered falln in their draps when their lil feet want to run,chase a butterfly.......& why???does just being born as a beautiful girl or rather lets say just "a girl" gives a family, a community or a religion a right 2 decide everythng connected to her even as to how much 2 cover her & how often?? m talking about a community where men can have several wives without any reasonable reasons to give,or probably the reason could be "she can't give me a son", as if its "she" alone responsible for not giving "a son". you can have several wives even when wen u hv sons 4m ur already existing wives,isn't tht unjustified??? thy say thy cover their ladies 2 respect their beauty, their pride.....but someone explain me thn wht it means when u leave ur wife to marry someone else....isn't tht hammering their pride???isn't that undignified???? or does her beauty changing with nature's time clock gives u a right to change your life clock too???same beauties tht the men seem to protect....are thrashed down in the same house isn't tht petrified??head to toe that god's beautiful creation is been covered, even her eyes been jailed,but no one would question a man watching her if she wants to free a bit,it's anyways easier to force the weak,than question a power.Wonder the suffocation beneath tht black cloth,wonder the humiliation to not live free,wonder tht restrictions n name of safety....at times,it amazes me more than ever to see a lady support this cruelty in the name of custom or duty,is it mere acceptance of their fate by them or is it lack of wings n ths birds,does that narrow view seen al lyf makes their minds narrow too??.....don't know what it is .....but someone should allow these birds their wings....to let them live as they want & then witness what power means....