THE LUCKY ONES

Why does it happen that one sex of human species is always at a benefit as compared to another one? This question arises to my mind quiet often . How the so called “powerful” male gender enjoys so much while hardly giving anything in return,there always exist exceptions which undoubtly fall here too but very rare though almost nil. Right from the birth they have their mother to take complete care of them , to shower them with unconditional , uncomparable love, this lady, who even sacrifices her relationship with her husband , other than her physic , her sleeps , life, aspirations, dreamz almost all. Inspite of giving in so much this lady is the most neglected & taken for granted one by that same boy,yet she bestows him with all she has . These people are the same, who have sisters who cares for them,who at times even try to become good friends to their brothers ( under exceptional cases though they succed or the scenario can be different tooo), but in return these people over cover her all time in name of “being a brother” or “protecting her from evil eyes”. These are the same people , who will run for their lady like crazies, make her feel “most special” than she ever did, they would write to her, followed by gifts,cards,respect,care, & words , lots & lots of words…..words that change with times, respect, care that flies out of the window with time,gifts & cards whose frequencies go on falling… & reasons ……hello what are you talking about??? Reasons become unnecessary as time clock moves on, yet they receive best of love all life again unconditionally & above that without returning even.They are giften with daughters-angels of god,to whom they again gifts lot of love till she demands her life,her dreamz,her love,in the name of “guidance”, she is been held back by that same man.How weird is nature’s law, why do men enjoy so much of love- the lifeline for life , if they don’t even intend to return it equally? Forget about loving unconditionally all life, why can’t these people merely respect or care or stand by for lifetime unconditionally?? I feel jealous when I look at these people & the fact that these people are so much lucky to have mothers , sisters , wives , daughters …..to love them , obey them, care for them , respect them,mould them into super powers & the best part ‘unconditionally’ .In a very famous novel there is a line I can relate to as of now & that says “ a man’s accusing finger will always find a women” & sadly this is true most of the times. Wish god could understand how it feels to be a part of witnessing this & wish he hears me & change these people to become “the unconditional lovers” & we the kind they are atleast for some moments of my life……….